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incall LOCATION 

I am located 5 minutes walk from the Sky Tower in the heart of Auckland. To make a booking for incalls, I will need your name, preferred time to meet and length of time. After we have agreed upon a time for our booking, you will receive a confirmation text. On arrival, I will send you my address and instructions. My instructions are clear but detailed and include a landmark opposite me and a link to a photo of my building.

For discretionary purposes, there is no building or door signage to indicate I am there. If you get confused or lost, please notify me and I will guide you to the right location.

For your convenience, I have compiled a short list of select ATMs, public carparks and cafes in the area.

RESPONSE TIME

I am a part-time escort and I am a one woman team.

On days that I have incalls, you will receive a speedy reply, a reply in under three hours - usually under one hour. My phone automatically switches to Do Not Disturb mode at 10pm. E-mails are replied to at the end of the day.

Out of hours responses will be severely delayed. I often to do not have my phone on me. It is highly encouraged you book online as you do not have to wait for me to reply to confirm a booking.

FIRST TIMERS

Seeing an escort for the first time can be a particularly nerve racking experience. I have a blog where you can learn about the behind the scenes or get to know me before you meet me. Or you may scroll through my Twitter or Curious Cat.

Screening

Clients are not screened for their appearance, they are screened for their characteristics. I only wish to see kind and respectful gentlemen as these two attributes are what I'm most attracted to, both at work an in my personal life. I will only see gentlemen who fit this criteria.

I am exceptionally comfortable at my incall and clients may retain their full anonymity. However, for all outcalls, I will require your full name and a way to verify this information. Entrusting me with your details enables me to entrust you with my safety.

Any requests for Holiday Companion must e-mail me the length of their desired booking, the dates, how we are travelling (air, boat, rental car etc.) and general itinerary. Providing this information assures me that you are organised and that you are making a serious enquiry. Failure to provide this information will have me decline you as a client.

I am happy to see anyone over the age of 18 and any ethnicity and only clients who have read my ad will be considered for bookings.

dISABILITIES/sPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES

Sorry, I cannot cater to clients in a wheelchair as my apartment is unsuitable but am able to do so for outcalls. If you have any physical/mental disabilities or medical ailments that are significant enough to impact our time together, please let me know when booking and how this may affect our booking. This allows me to make adjusts to my service before hand, without the awkwardness of trial and error if left unprepared.

i.e. having a broken arm, social/sexual anxiety, phimosis etc.

Grooming

I am always freshly showered and dressed to impress with pristine makeup, manicured nails, designer lingerie and thigh-high stockings. In return, I ask that you are also meticulous in your grooming standards. Prepare as you would for a first date. I am a non-smoker so please be courteous and avoid smoking directly before seeing me. The deepest and fullest kisses are reserved for those with minty, fresh breath.

I will provide you with a shower, a freshly laundered towel and mouthwash upon arrival. Please refrain from putting your clothes back on after your shower, it defeats the purpose of showering if you have worn them all day - just wrap yourself in the towel I have provided you.

Learn more on how grooming affects our time together here.

 CONFIDENTIALITY

Both my laptop and phone are password protected. My laptop is encrypted and my phone will be wiped clean if tampered with. I take confidentiality seriously.

While booking incalls, you are

If I see you in public, I will not approach you. I am a known escort in my personal life - you may break your own confidentiality if you approach me in any capacity.

DISCRETION

For discretionary purposes, I avoid wearing perfumes, or if I do, it is applied behind my ear and will not rub off on you. I provide scentless body wash as an option and use scentless, water dispersible massage oil. Any oil will easily be washed off during a normal shower with no extra effort. You will not go home smelling like me or any of the products I use. 

You will not be contacted unexpectedly and all your information will be kept private. If I do have to contact you unexpectedly for cancellation purposes, I will use a number that is not listed online and will pose as VAL auto electrical repairs.

I will only reply to messages less than three hours old. After this time, you may have left your phone unattended or be with friends/family. If I do not reply, send another message or book online.

If I miss your call, please text me. If you would like me to ring you back, please say so.

 

RESPECT

Please let me know as soon as possible if you are going to be delayed or wish to cancel - no hard feelings. I will actively make sure I can still accommodate you and your booking if you run late or get lost (unless you are significantly behind schedule). Not informing me of delays affects my enthusiasm to meet you, in the same way that your enthusiasm would drop if I left you sitting in your car, not replying, when it was time for our booking!

If you cancel without telling me, you will be banned for life. If I need to cancel, I will inform you with as much notice as I possible and offer my next earliest availability.


SAFETY

Thankfully, the Prostitute Reform Act 2003 decriminalises sex work in New Zealand. This means I am a legal worker and it is legal to purchase my services. All my clients are gentlemen who put their health before pleasure and will not ask to engage in risky sexual behaviour. I actively refuse my services to anyone outside of this description.

For my safety, I have a minder with me at all times who will remain quiet and out of the way.

GIFTS

Gifts are not necessary although I do appreciate them!

If you would like to bring me a snack, I enjoy the Life Force smoothie from Tank Juice (5 Elliot Street).

If you are feeling more generous, I would be so grateful to receive Lululemon or Honey Birdette or Agent Provocateur gift vouchers as lingerie and fitness gear are what I wear the most. Any amount is greatly appreciated.

Prince lingerie set from Honey Birdette. Royal purple satin with bronze embroidery and amethyst crystals.  I enjoy well-made lingerie with any mesh, cut out, crystal or embroidered detailing.

Prince lingerie set from Honey Birdette. Royal purple satin with bronze embroidery and amethyst crystals.

I enjoy well-made lingerie with any mesh, cut out, crystal or embroidered detailing.

I try to branch out from dark-toned lingerie as much as possible. Vivid, royal colours and gold or bronze detailing complement my skin tone well.  If you want to see what $350+ lingerie looks like on, you’re going to have to visit me :)

I try to branch out from dark-toned lingerie as much as possible. Vivid, royal colours and gold or bronze detailing complement my skin tone well.

If you want to see what $350+ lingerie looks like on, you’re going to have to visit me :)